How do you talk to someone who twists your words so much that in the end it sounded like you were trying to kill her and her family?
Daughters bf had 2 dogs and puppies, but was made homeless. Older brothers gf pops in and says we can take mom and the pups for you for a bit.
Daughter has back surgery.
Brothers gf suddenly decides a week later momma dog has got to go and now. Daughter and bf have no way to get her and no where to put or take her. They say so. Brothers gf doesnt care. Now shes pissed and daughter is done with the verbal tirades. Stops responding.
Brothers gf then goes off the deep end with all of it and says some really not nice stuff to daughter. And shes proud of what she says….which is just nasty.
Move on, I start helping financially and they finally get rid of the puppies and all is right in the world again.
Brothers gf asks me to ask about the dogs breed. So I asked daughter. She gets upset and emotional and doesnt want to talk about it much as mom dog was her bfs favorite and spoiled baby and he always wanted her back but feels after all the drama theres no way. I mention to brothers gf that I asked, gave answers and just simply shortly described the conversation and she gets pissed…again. Doesnt care about daughters feelings or daughters bfs feelings. Says they told me to kill her. repeatedly. Now..what daughter told her was rehome her or give her to a shelter. At no time did she ever tell brothers gf to kill the dog. But thats the nth degree to which brothers gf takes everything. So, now shes railing at me….
See if you can see who is who in these messages….the messages were over a few months period starting in November I think
So much more in between but damn the woman just goes on and on endlessly. Its hard to talk with her… She always ends up making me feel like shit somehow….Like I dont care enough or help enough or get involved enough….she acts like shes deep and philosophical and her thoughts are so much better than peoples. but she just takes something simple and blows it up. I try….I always try…with her and the crazy baby mama but damnit man…its not easy…
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